Is He The One? All of us have been in various relationships that didn’t work out. Some were our fault, others weren’t. You thought he was the one but BOOM! He shocked and disappointed you. You were either blind, naive or refused to accept the truth when you saw the red flags waving. Sometimes we choose to write our love stories instead of allowing God to do the “magic” for us. Your love story may not include your crush, John, Themba, Chike or Koffi but you deserve the best. Don’t ever doubt that.
5 Signs That He Might Be Your Husband
As a man, I have observed, lived and know some signs that will confirm that the man you are dating might just be your future husband. Go through it and ask yourself whether you have noticed any of these:
1. He’s dating you with a vision
He isn’t in it for just fun and friendship. He desires to take it to the next level, and become your husband. A lot of men just string you along without a clear and proper vision for the two of you. A man with a vision will clearly define his intentions as soon as possible. He will not just be your friend or date you for a year without telling you his intention. If you’ve got time to waste, stay with him. If not, I advise you to move on.
2. Your relationship is exclusive
Lately a lot of men are in the relationship game to date multiple women. In 2021? Make up your mind that your answer is “No way”. A sign that he might be your husband is revealed when you are his one and only. He won’t share you or himself with anyone else. He’ll prove that the norm that “all men are dogs”, isn’t true. He’s cut from a different cloth – husband material. When you are exclusive he will give you all his attention and grow the relationship.
3. He believes in honesty in the relationship
A great relationship is one which is very transparent and open. A potential husband doesn’t care so much about what you do that you are not comfortable with, how you dress, your weight or make up. He believes you are beautiful and will only get better. His life is an open book and that will help you open up also. That is what friendship is all about – being yourself with your strength, flaws, insecurities and weaknesses.
4. You meet his family and he puts a ring on it
For this guy family is key. It’s been six months or maybe a year – have you met his close friends, parents, family and cousins? If not then don’t see him as your husband just yet, he may be looking at another woman. You must meet the most important people in his life. That shows he’s thinking long-term. The proof that a man wants to marry you is if he put that ring on it, Beyonce wasn’t wrong! It is one of the greatest feelings for you ladies. And a man who’s serious will want his lady to feel that. Don’t let him get away with just promising to marry you without proving it with a ring.
5. He marries you with no intention of divorce
Some men are addicted to just being engaged without ever being married! They were engaged before Jesus was crucified and are still engaged after Easter Sunday 2022! Hahahaha! But seriously, what’s the point of being engaged for so long? Maybe he got engaged to you so the pressure of getting married can be taken off. A man who wants to be your husband and wants you to be his wife will actually be more interested in setting a date for the wedding as soon as possible. Also, if he is a man who keeps his words, then he will keep his vows “until death do us part”. His intention is to be married to you. Divorce is not an option.
Have you noticed any sign that he is the one for you? What are those signs?
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